Well, I was bullied in high school, and I've had a lot of time to reflect on the things that were happening since than. I can tell you right now, trying to "please" those people so they'd stop bothering you is not worth it. That suggests that the fault is yours, and you have to change for them to stop.
No. They are bullies. Whatever you do, they will find what to pick on. They will see that it matters to you and they will do it more. Mix Tape is right, just don't react. Be yourself. I used to get bullied for...well the people found all kinds of reasons. When i stopped doing those things, it became "i heard that you said something about me to someone"- I hadn't, but they just needed an excuse. I would say just claim your power back- as long as you try to please them it's all on them what you do. But it isn't.
I know it's hard but try to be yourself. Try to care less, if you really can't get out of there. If they say you're a slut- is that the best they can do? you're having nice time with your guy friends while they are talking c**p about other people- who is having a better time?:) Don't let them define who you are. People talk, there will always be someone who will have bad opinion of you- and someone who will think you're amazing. Choose whom you listen to. Keep your head high, do what you want to do. If they talk to you offensive things, say things back, but with cool, don't get anger get in that. And remember that one day you will be out of that situation and what they think of you won't matter, but what you think of yourself.
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