With me I've never fallen for anyone because they were a girl or guy.
When I was younger (13-16) I was a lesbian, I only dated girls and didn't find me attractive in the slightest.
Then I met my previous partner who was a guy and it was weird, for me, to be with someone who was a man. I struggled with sexual things, not sex, but, other activites.
Since him I have found a handful of men attractive, but I feel more comfortable with a girl, that doesn't mean my feelings are any less and I am totally besotted with my current partner who is male.
I still identify myself with being gay, yet I am dating someone of the oposite sex, I despise the word bisexual, but I have found that Pansexual fits my sexuality better.
I don't know, I think it is something that is up to the individual, and always will.
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