I agree with the pre-disposition thing.
My hope, however, is that no one will have to ever 'come out'
I've always been only attracted to those of my sex. Even when I was younger. The opposite sex made excellent friends, but I never thought more about it then that. I knew I liked the same sex for a long time, I just didn't know there was a word to go with it. I don't 'come out' to everyone because straight people never have to 'come out' either. It's not fair, and it's unnecessary. Or it should be.
So. erm. pre-disposition, but more nature then nurture. You're not gay or straight when you are born, but as you grow your hormones (even before puberty) change and define where you lay on the sexual orientation spectrum.
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