Are you BORN gay? Or do you BECOME gay due to life events?
Is there even such thing as being TOTALLY gay?
Or do you just fall in love with someone regardless of Gender?
Do people who 'come out' just stick to what they're used to/what's expected of them?
Or even convince themselves they're gay because they've had such a hard time 'coming out'
I have huge issues with my sexuality & it annoys me SO much that people assume I'm gay because I've been sexually abused by someone of the opposite sex...But I wouldn't say I was born gay. How can you be gay when you're not even aware that sex exists, let alone gay sex.
When I was kid I used to write... I <3 John/whoever on my pencil case but of course I didn't really love them.
The first person I fell in love with was a girl & I'm in love with my current girlfriend but I haven't completely ruled guys.
Erm anyway, discuss....whatever
