This post is obviously here because you aren't getting replies in your own threads that are 110% comfortable for you. Unfortunately though, when you post on a public - and relatively anonymous - internet forum, this is a risk you take. & it's true in real life too, which you have found recently (like when Nicola told you that you needed to take responsibility for yourself, so you acted out). People don't always tell you what you want to hear.
I think when you behave in the way that you do, actively grandstanding your behaviours, you open yourself up for these responses. There are a lot of people who are rubbed entirely the wrong way by the sorts of things that you post about (and for the reasons they interpret that you post them). No you might not like them, but the internet is a place where people can say whatever they want.
I think if you are going to continue to post how you have in the past, these responses will continue to flow. Most especially when you ignore the ones that are real attempts to help (which is most, despite the fact they are not the validation of 'oh poor baby yes you need to be in hospital you are so sick' responses).
The biggest changes will come from you. When you begin to act in a mature and responsible way, the responses will likely become more of the same - or, for the ones that already are, you may begin to see them for what they are, rather than a painful annoyance of not getting what you want.
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