Originally Posted by
Shay-la
Same here, couldn't put words to it before but you've hit the nail on the head!
I've been reading this thread and trying to put what I'm thinking into words and now I don't have to because you've said what I was failing to word properly.
If someone says "thanks but your approach isn't really helping", then whoever is being told that needs to back the heck off.
Sometimes all a person needs is to know that they're being heard, understood and that they have people around them who just "get it".
Not everyone wants to be analyzed and challenged.
^ I agree!
Also as another point I see the sort've opinions that people sometimes express not just on here but on the whole internet in general places like youtube,facebook a lot of people on internet seem to have a negative attitude to others in general and feel that they should let it be known because they are behind a computer-I mean I don't think a lot of people would blatantly go up to a stranger and go yeah I think you're lying etc etc,it seems to be the 'trend' these days to say exactly what you think without taking anothers feelings into consideration and then it escalates and leads to cyber bullying.
Also its a huge community with a lot of different characters and different struggles which add to the mix.