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griddlebone · 21-11-2013, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Taraxacum

Ok, perhaps instead of read, it should say - they don't have to interpret it as somebody being a bitch/bully.

But if someone is continuing to force their brand of support on someone who has expressed that it doesnt work for them, then it seems to be on the verge of bullying to continue to force it onto someone, Im not sure what people would gain from that? If youre making a supportive reply then surely the key is to support the member and to adapt to their needs, if its not then whats the point in trying to support them?

21-11-2013, 09:56 PM	#12
griddlebone Head of Chat/Forum Mod. Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: London. I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Taraxacum Ok, perhaps instead of read, it should say - they don't have to interpret it as somebody being a bitch/bully. But if someone is continuing to force their brand of support on someone who has expressed that it doesnt work for them, then it seems to be on the verge of bullying to continue to force it onto someone, Im not sure what people would gain from that? If youre making a supportive reply then surely the key is to support the member and to adapt to their needs, if its not then whats the point in trying to support them?
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