If he is the right guy, if he is understanding, he wont care if you have scars or not because he will want to be around you for your personality.
The first time my boyfriend saw my arms we were just laying in bed. i didnt say anything i just froze. but he didnt shout or get angry or storm off. we are from completely different walks of life in some respects because he had never ever experienced any sort of MH issue/didnt have any friends that had it/talked about any problems they had to him. so he was very much in the blue regarding mental health (the first time he saw my scars the first thing that sprung to his mind was that i had been bitten by a shark...but after thinking it over he kind of realised himself it was self harm). and even though there are alot of things i cant tell him, and alot of times he doesnt understand, he is getting there.
rambling now. what im trying to say is go for it. if you like him then why not? if he turns away then you know he isnt the right one for you and if he doesnt then yay :)
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