I would disagree in that your lesson might be not to trust some people, not all people. I'm sorry that your friend betrayed you and told the other 'friend' who is being unpleasant to you. That sounds a very oppressive situation to be in and it's no wonder you are feeling hurt and angry. Could you talk to the friend that you've told and tell her how upset you are that she broke your trust?
As for the friend who is telling you that you will go to hell, well, it's so hard to hear things like that, especially when you are working as hard as you are by getting counselling. I've been told that I will go to hell before and it does hurt, I know it does, but because someone else thinks something that doesn't make it true. If that's what she believes, that's her call, it isn't yours and you don't have to let it hurt you. You know you won't go to hell because you self-harm and so hold onto that.
It's good you rang your Mum and told her. What does she think of this situation? I'm glad that she's on side. Is she supportive?
|