I think it is pretty normal to feel that way, a lot of people do.
Right now I couldn't afford to have a baby, I am still at uni, have barely enough money to pay my bills and am not exactly emotionally stable. I know that, and I don't think having a baby right now would do me or the baby any good. But when I took a pregnancy test a few weeks ago it made me really sad that it was negative, and that was hard to deal with. I need to keep reminding myself that this is just not the right time.
I think it is very good that you have the insight to say that it's not the time for you to have a kid. It can be hard, but in the long run it pays off to stay rational and plan ahead.
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