the best relaxer is an orgasm lol! it will also 'prepare' her for more action so to speak. lol. my hubby is slightly too large for me and i always need to have orgasmed and use lube before im ready for him.
some people think it is best to slowly stretch before breaking the hymen (with fingers) and others think it's best to get it over with as it feels more intense. ask her how she wants it done and then go with that. *cuddles* mand x
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