with boyfriends i think its best to be honest always...but kids are a different story...i work with kids often and mostly they dont ask but some do and i just say i had an accident or a realy mean cat or something. they dont need to know the truth until theyre ol enough to handle it and by then they usually figure it out for themselves...like my little brother. i always told him it was from my old room mates cat...but hes 11 now and i know he doesnt think thats true. i'm not sure if he know the real truth but he knows its something i'm not comfortable with and he knows it causes a lot of stress in my life. so he doesnt talk about it...
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