thank you for your replies. I have tried talking to her about it when she is sober but she doesn't give a reason as such. I think it is a cry for help and i'm trying to understand but I just cant deal with it. I think its coz when you try to stop her talk her down (in a way of speaking) she doesn't listen and just carries on. I just have to walk away now and let the staff here deal with it. its just hard to see it an deal with it when it triggers myself.
ive had a friend that was cutting herself and she kept going deep an I ended up saying to her i'd rather she do it with me there so I could help her if she need it then her go off an do it an I don't know if she has gone too far but this is different. my friend that cut with me there really wanted help an would talk to me first an if it helped then she wouldn't cut but if she still needed to cut then she would. but with this other girl you cant do that. its like she doesn't want help, just a reaction.
like I say I think I just find it very hard to see an deal with an maybe that's my problem. it just feels like she has no respect for anyone else.
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