Yeah, what they said.
And, (some) people like others to be like them, to want what they want, etc-- it reinforces their view of the world and makes them feel comfortable about their choices, rather than acknowledging this whole big world of choices to be made.
I think sometimes some of the people who are most adamant that you have to make the same choices they do-- may really wish that they felt they had the freedom to consider and make other choices. And then some people are such black-and-white thinkers (there is only one right way to live, my way, thus all other ways are BAD!)
To be trite, how boring would it be if everyone did all the same things?
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