Hi
I'm sure you are not as you see yourself. Attractive is not just a surface thing and if someone is that shallow, they're not worth dating anyway.
I dated someone that my friends politely told me was really un-attractive looking. To me he was smart and funny and manly and sweet and had a kind nature. All of those things were attractive to me.
I understand how you feel. I have a big scar on my face and it makes me really insecure, I'm also fat and have bad skin, I could go on.... But when someone falls in love with you, it should be for you.
It doesn't sound like that other relationship was right for you, you showed amazing courage to leave when you realised that. It's just an insecure pang that makes you jealous.
I bet you're more attractive than you think you are. Maybe post your picture on match.com? Not to get into anything serious but just a bit of chat and attention to build your confidence and distract you from feelings about ex.
Or maybe I'm way off here
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