Hi there.
I think everyone does ask themselves this in every relationship at some point or another.
I myself asked it about my previous relationship and I ended it and it turned out that it was in fact just co-dependence...because I didn't miss him when it was over; I just felt safe with him because we had a house and his family were close to us etc. Once it was over I felt a wave of relief.
It is only you at the end of the day who can answer the question because only you know the ins and outs of the relationship. Do you find yourself imagining life with someone else? Or see other people and feel more attracted to them than your partner? These are the things I found myself doing. When you've had a bad day or you're upset who is it you want to talk to about it?
I hope you work things out.
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