I do agree about blocking him. People like that need control and you need to take back control. You have control of your life because you have a partner and you are coming for help instead of self destructing when he comes back into your life.
If you can't talk to your partner or talk to a professional then keep writing here till you feel comfortable talking to your partner. They deserve to know so they can help you through it.
The fact his friends knew and other people knew makes it worse and you have to know it wasn't your fault and every person who ignored it takes a little of his guilt. You are strong because you carried on with life and lived it. Remember that.
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