I dont want kids. I am selfish and I want to spend my money on what I like, not because Johnny needs new shoes (or whatever kids needs these days). My ex had kids from a previous marriage, I hated giving them money but I felt I had to. Even when we were broke ourselves. I prefer to have my cats. I dont wish harm on kids, but on other hand I cant tolerate other people's kids. I certainly dont find other people's kids cute, especially babies. I liked about the fact that about my ex's kids that they were out out of the nappy stage and that you could give them back to their mother at the end of the day. Both of which you have to tolerate when you have kids.
So nope I dont see myself having kids. I dont think you're weird.
As for being single, then I dont think you're being weird. I am single and quite happy. I dont know how much this is due to being SA, though not to want a relationship. Sometimes I do get lonely, but the freedom of being alone and not having a whiny other half is worth it!
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