I prefer OkC and am currently dating someone I met on there. I've found it much better for meeting people. Although if you want you can pm me a link to your profile and I might be able to suggest ways you can tailor it so it attracts the type of person you're looking for.
When I message someone, I normally say something along the lines of "Hello <name>, I saw your profile and liked it lots so thought I'd message. How's it going?". Then I mention something on their profile and ask a question about it. So if they said they were into art galleries I might say "I like that you are interested in art galleries, have you been to the Tate Modern? I work right by it". Then I would end with an "All the best, Oliver" with the "Oliver" on its own line.
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