I had to tell my husband, at that time just my boyfriend, that i was abused when i was younger. I told him after crying after trying to get intimate. It was really awkward and it i really didnt want to talk about it but after i told him, he was so supportive and now when i have a flashback or something he is always right there. it made us closer. Bringing it up probably wont be easy but i found it really helpful.
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