i waited till i got 2 know some1 - and before getting too intimate. then i allowed them to see a bit at a time & gave brief explaination whe they asked ut also made it clear i didnt want 2 go into detail right then. then they know u for you. less likely to think ur suddenly going to change. more likely to care & want to understand. Also gives them a chance to take it in - show/talk to them at relaxed time when ur in good mood & they can go away ater & think about it. not be suddenly be confronted w/ injuries at an intimate moment.
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