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effervescence · 13-02-2013, 06:21 AM

I prefer to tell them beforehand for three reasons:
- it avoids ruining the moment if they suddenly see/feel scars
- it stops me worrying about them finding out
- it they are going to freak out and be all weird about it and not handle it and leave, i'd rather know earlier on in the relationship than after we've got really close etc.

13-02-2013, 06:21 AM	#3
effervescence tired Join Date: Feb 2008 I am currently:	I prefer to tell them beforehand for three reasons: - it avoids ruining the moment if they suddenly see/feel scars - it stops me worrying about them finding out - it they are going to freak out and be all weird about it and not handle it and leave, i'd rather know earlier on in the relationship than after we've got really close etc.
effervescence tired Join Date: Feb 2008 I am currently:	Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.