People react to things in different ways.
For example, I have a history of abuse etc, but it doesn't bother me and it's not the root of my problems. But things like that affect other people in a totally different way and might be the cause of their problems.
I always say that it doesn't matter why you feel how you do, if you're feeling so low and feel the need to self harm, then that's completely valid and is worth helping. Whatever the reason.
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