I've been with my hubby do 6 years now. Most of that I was able to control my cutting so it didnt affect him. Recently in the last year I've been struggling. It's hard but I think it hurts him more when I don't even try to let him help do anything about it. I think he just wants me to talk to him first, I know it's hard especially when you just Want to cut and no one to stop you, but he ares and be doesn't want you to hurt. Be honest is what I can say, be gentle as well. Please take care.
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