I am going to say this to you later but I'm really pissed off about it so some Pre ranting here is required.
I can't bloody believe you have booked it for four. Again. The last three times I've seen you it's supposed to have been you, me, TM and maybe A. And we don't bring anyone along because certain things we do, we've done for years and years. Like our Christmas traditions but you bought your partner to that and we didn't really say anything even though TF told me he wasn't happy either and it was the second time you'd done it. Then today you phone to check what time we're meeting and then say 'oh by the way, L is coming'. TM and I wanted to do this, both of us are driving an hour+ to get to yours and it's been arranged nearly a month! At no point did we ask L, in fact I was pretty damn sure I'd nicely said it was going to be just TM, her and I and so had TM. But no. Now L is coming, who seems ok but TF behaves differently (in a negative way), when L is there and sometimes it would be nice to see her without L. I don't expect all the time but things we do 'traditionally' as a group would be nice, hell even if you asked it would be a good start! 'Hey, L wants to come, know it was supposed to be just us but would you mind if I brought her?'
I've stuck up for you with K, J etc about you not being in contact or making plans with ANYONE bar L because I know it's your first proper relationship and still fairly new. I'm getting a bit fucking tired of it to be honest though now.
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