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sajhfuahuefghaeg · 27-01-2013, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by snailonvalium

I still have no idea who qk'ers are but this thread turned from "constructive comments" about the board,to what has seemingly become lets bitch about groups we (personally)have a problem with.

A lot of you have mentioned hijacking in threads,to me this has turned into that. The last few pages (when.viewed on tapatalk) are people all talking about a group that half the people on ryl don't know exists.
It just looks like a load of teenage bickering from where i am.
You're never all going to agree,same for.the boards,people are never going to agree on how things go,or who's posting most or who's getting most replies.
Last year the ed board had one big clique,in a few months people will be complaining about another.

/rant

I'm actually quite offended that you find me trying to have a mature discussion about/with a group who knows they exist and are quite prominent is teenage bickering. I am not a teenager. I am not bitching, I am explaining how sometimes I find them intimidating, as by request from them and the OP of this thread. If no one talks about it, the gap between "us" and "them" will get bigger and bigger, and there will be a bigger fall out unless we have this discussion. I for one am glad that Jenna and Lana have taken the time to reply, have this conversation and explain their actions from their point of view, and I have learned a lot.

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Originally Posted by snailonvalium

You can't stop people making friends with other people,I've made friends with people on another board irl,the difference seems to be that on that board people don't care about there being groups of people who post and reply to each other because any new person is welcomed(or old person)...there is no bitching and rarely any drama.

Probably why spend more time there,than here.

Again, I don't give a crap about who is friends with who. It happens, it's life. People make friends, people spend more time in the company of people that they prefer. This is not what I have a problem with. I have a problem, as I have explained about 3 pages ago, with the fact that they seem very banded together and larger than life, and very in your face.

There will always be bitching and drama here. People are unwell, people take things the wrong way because text has no tone, and some people just start **** for the sake of it. If you like your other forum so much, go stay there.

I want to fix this problem, or at least give a damn decent reason as to why it needs to be fixed, or at least understood. I like RYL, I don't want people to feel threatened and intimidated by accident.

Everyone in this thread has been polite, open minded and mature about this entire discussion, and it is now descending into pot shots and emotional drama, and this is not what we need from this thread.

27-01-2013, 01:51 PM	#155
sajhfuahuefghaeg Join Date: Feb 2008	Quote: Originally Posted by snailonvalium I still have no idea who qk'ers are but this thread turned from "constructive comments" about the board,to what has seemingly become lets bitch about groups we (personally)have a problem with. A lot of you have mentioned hijacking in threads,to me this has turned into that. The last few pages (when.viewed on tapatalk) are people all talking about a group that half the people on ryl don't know exists. It just looks like a load of teenage bickering from where i am. You're never all going to agree,same for.the boards,people are never going to agree on how things go,or who's posting most or who's getting most replies. Last year the ed board had one big clique,in a few months people will be complaining about another. /rant I'm actually quite offended that you find me trying to have a mature discussion about/with a group who knows they exist and are quite prominent is teenage bickering. I am not a teenager. I am not bitching, I am explaining how sometimes I find them intimidating, as by request from them and the OP of this thread. If no one talks about it, the gap between "us" and "them" will get bigger and bigger, and there will be a bigger fall out unless we have this discussion. I for one am glad that Jenna and Lana have taken the time to reply, have this conversation and explain their actions from their point of view, and I have learned a lot. Quote: Originally Posted by snailonvalium You can't stop people making friends with other people,I've made friends with people on another board irl,the difference seems to be that on that board people don't care about there being groups of people who post and reply to each other because any new person is welcomed(or old person)...there is no bitching and rarely any drama. Probably why spend more time there,than here. Again, I don't give a crap about who is friends with who. It happens, it's life. People make friends, people spend more time in the company of people that they prefer. This is not what I have a problem with. I have a problem, as I have explained about 3 pages ago, with the fact that they seem very banded together and larger than life, and very in your face. There will always be bitching and drama here. People are unwell, people take things the wrong way because text has no tone, and some people just start **** for the sake of it. If you like your other forum so much, go stay there. I want to fix this problem, or at least give a damn decent reason as to why it needs to be fixed, or at least understood. I like RYL, I don't want people to feel threatened and intimidated by accident. Everyone in this thread has been polite, open minded and mature about this entire discussion, and it is now descending into pot shots and emotional drama, and this is not what we need from this thread.
sajhfuahuefghaeg Join Date: Feb 2008