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Old 25-01-2013, 09:19 PM   #36
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Originally Posted by Narcissa View Post
I don't think repeating on end that there are cliques is very helpful. You can keep complaining about it, but that will only make you get yourself more wound up about it; it won't change anything. Cliques are a natural social construct which will always arise.
I agree that cliques will always happen and are a natural part of human nature, however how much those cliques choose to take responsibility and prevent others from feeling uncomfortable varies from clique to clique and I do think that even if there is no ill intent people need to take responsibility for their actions ad words, and their effect on others. I'm not referring to any group in particular just think it is something to be aware of as it is easy for a clique to unintentionally alienate people then become defensive if someone outside of the 'group' challenges their dynamic.



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