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griddlebone · 25-01-2013, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Crysainta

Look at my join date. I speak from experience when it comes to the sick and twisted aspect of being too emotionally invested in RYL. There's a fine line, but even before you cross that line it is unhealthy. That isn't a judgment on anyone's character, but an observation of what it does to people. I come back to RYL for the familiarity of it and seeing people who know my personal issues without judging me. When I was modding here and when I was an active member, it really was sick. It can get into your soul and stop you from going out and being in the real world. Some people never have a problem with it but when I see people who have posts all over the place it concerns me. When someone posts thread upon thread, even if they are lighthearted threads, it suggests to me that they need to get out more, even if just to other websites.

This is so true,actually makes me upset in relief that its not just me who feels like that,if that makes sense?x

25-01-2013, 01:05 AM	#26
griddlebone Head of Chat/Forum Mod. Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: London. I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Crysainta Look at my join date. I speak from experience when it comes to the sick and twisted aspect of being too emotionally invested in RYL. There's a fine line, but even before you cross that line it is unhealthy. That isn't a judgment on anyone's character, but an observation of what it does to people. I come back to RYL for the familiarity of it and seeing people who know my personal issues without judging me. When I was modding here and when I was an active member, it really was sick. It can get into your soul and stop you from going out and being in the real world. Some people never have a problem with it but when I see people who have posts all over the place it concerns me. When someone posts thread upon thread, even if they are lighthearted threads, it suggests to me that they need to get out more, even if just to other websites. This is so true,actually makes me upset in relief that its not just me who feels like that,if that makes sense?x
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