Your best friend is yourself - when you find you lol. Friends aren't any cure all. I suspect there is a wall up between you and people because people can make you react too easy. Don't make other people too important. Watch your own reactions to people and don't analyse/judge too much - especially yourself. Volunteer for some things and just do it because you like it and dont make expectations on yourself (be careful who you draw too because if your too eager you might settle for oddballs). Just follow your interests and see who you bump into. You want an attitude that says "If I make friends fine - if I don't thats fine too". Keep a nice and genuine attitude and peeps will spot you out. I was quiet in high school despite being all-everything. My biggest fault was judging everything too much and being in shell. That came from resenting people (which I learned at home)
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