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blondiebear · 29-10-2007, 06:14 AM

i'm not going to laugh at you. i'm going to offer you a clean tissue and some water to rinse your mouth after you puked. and a cold pack for your knuckle. be glad you didn't break it.

Selfish and wanting your own way? Yeah, it's human. Happily ever after? there's no magic wand or glass slipper there. it's all just day to day decisions and actions. and finding the miracles or the glimmer of light in each day or even knowing that after the dark we'll appreciate the light that much more.

We're always hardest on ourselves. one of my friends tells me to be good, i ask him to define good and he says be good to yourself.

so be less harsh with yourself.

along with the tissue and the water and the ice pack, a great big cherishing bear hug for you.

love, susan

29-10-2007, 06:14 AM	#11
blondiebear Bringing back the lost art of Sewing Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Confusion I am currently:	i'm not going to laugh at you. i'm going to offer you a clean tissue and some water to rinse your mouth after you puked. and a cold pack for your knuckle. be glad you didn't break it. Selfish and wanting your own way? Yeah, it's human. Happily ever after? there's no magic wand or glass slipper there. it's all just day to day decisions and actions. and finding the miracles or the glimmer of light in each day or even knowing that after the dark we'll appreciate the light that much more. We're always hardest on ourselves. one of my friends tells me to be good, i ask him to define good and he says be good to yourself. so be less harsh with yourself. along with the tissue and the water and the ice pack, a great big cherishing bear hug for you. love, susan
	My husband is my best friend. In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.