Its not a case of you dismissing what i've said. I've been legal guardian to my sister for nearly three years now, she's 8 years old. And I love her to pieces, she's so brilliant. But its a big commitment, you can't be selfish with a young child, you have to think ahead, have a plan, be able to be there for them and any mistake they might make, thats being a parent.
Judging by your posting, you are clearly not ready for a child if you can't even take care of yourself.
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