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Wife Depressed wants out
Hi
I hope somebody on the forum can offer some support.
My wife over the past 12 months has changed completly and just reckons she is growing up, she is 26. Back in April a visit to the doctor indicated that on a level of 1 to 10 and 10 being the higest for depression she was at number 7. All the doctor done was give out anti depressants and was never reviewed again.
It has now got to a stage where she says she does not love me, has moved to be on her own and no one can change how she feels, yet she is going with me on Friday to visit a councillor but still she reckons it is just a waste of time. She is very resentful towards me and her mother yet she happy and cheerful round others but feels lonely at her new pad. Only last week we met for coffee and atthe start she was very negative and wanted to finish things but after we talked she was positive and talked about getting a house together and having a holiday, few days later back to being negative. I love my wife dearly but she is not accepting my support at present as much as i want too, i am now fearing i am fighting a loosing battle.
I have read a lot about depression and trying to understand but hopefully you guys can help - i do not want to give up on her yet she wants to give up on our marriage....
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