^ Sometimes financial reasons (life insurance), or family situations (weddings, graduations, births, etc.). It depends what your reason is.
I did know someone a while back, who had a date fixed (certain) - he was waiting for his daughter to graduate college (USA). Nothing would have changed his mind, he wasn't mentally ill.
But yes, many people who have dates/threads on here are looking to be talked out of it, which just makes the dates upsetting and unhelpful.
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