It really depends on your definition. According to my boyfriend, I hadn't lost my virginity when I was abused. According to me, I don't know. According to my mom, I lost my virginity a long long time ago.
I would say that you should pick the answer that you're the most comfortable.
Personally, I would suggest that you say you hadn't lost it, because of the social part of virginity. You haven't chosen to have sex. You weren't really a participant.
Does that help?
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