I'm in your situation in that my husband doesn't have Mh problems and I do. We've been together for 12 years now so we must have done somethig right.
Try and remember your relationship isn't about your MH problems. It's about you as a person and him as a person. Theres a lot more to you than that. I know it's hard but you need to try and not help MH stuff take over otherwise it can become very heavy and overwhelming.
Try and do things couples do even when your feeling low, it will also help ease your depression to get out and about. And if you have a heavy convo about MH make sure you also have some time not talking about it.
It mght also be worth you gettig a med review as it would be a shame for the depression to start spoiling things for you.
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