I don't know. I don't think it's helpful to blame everything you struggle with on your past... sometimes people just aren't good at things. Like I'm terrible at recognizing flirtatious behaviour, (be that my own or others) but I'd say that was just how I am as opposed to a consequence of abuse.
Do you see what I mean? I think blaming everything on bullying means you have 'excuses'for all your faults, when in fact your faults are very much individual and make you a 'real' person filled with positives and negatives.
This probably isn't making much sense!
Last edited by Bellatrix : 20-08-2012 at 12:29 PM.
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