Originally Posted by
Narcissa
And you've been given feedback. The majority opinion seems to be that it was a bit rude of him to not tell you, but that what you did was also very rude, and two wrongs do not make a right.
In other news, I wanted to pick up on the fact that he was supposed to be texting you to confirm. By not doing so, he sort of let you know that he wasn't coming. Admittedly it would of been polite of him to text anyway to say he couldn't come, but I don't understand why you were so surprised that he didn't show.
I am a Man of my word and when I say i will turn up some where I WILL do it.
I did have a very slight sinking feeling before leaving the house but i always try to give people benefit of the doubt and the fact he didnt get in touch didnt say to ME he was not going as there was no word from saying EXPLICITLY he was NOT going said to me he WAS not going.
If someone does not tell me in clear and conscise terms they have no intention of going or they dont let me know, i go with the thought that a person IS going.
I am one of these people who very very very very very rarely indeed "Get" hints, that's me.
HE suggested sunday and the time. and he had PLLLLENNNNNTTTTTTYYYYY of time to call/text/fb me, there is zero excuse on his part, none.
He was well out of order what he did or didnt do. I take responsiblity for my actions.