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The One Who · 22-07-2012, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Narcissa

Is it actually in the actual rules that you can't have multiple threads, or is it more of an unwritten rule? And if so, can I PR threads if the poster already has an active thread in the same board?

I didn't think there was any such rule, and I'm hesitant to really agree with it. I mean, define "active"? Is that no replies in a day, a week, a month? The second page, the fifth page? Whilst I agree that someone having two or more separate threads on the first page is annoying (and fragmented), if they are dealing with two separate issues, then is it really right to force those two issues together?

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And how do people suggest we deal with people just using threads to rant and ignore advice? I'd say just stop replying, but I get the feeling some people think it's a bit harsh to ignore someone who continually posts "It's too late" "I'm going to end it tonight", and end up replying, even though they know they will be ignored?

Depending on the content, you could PR them for "suicide notes" or similar? Or, you could suggest that they may find the R/V forum (or journals even) more useful if they are not actively seeking support for their issue(s).

22-07-2012, 05:37 PM	#30
The One Who Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Somewhere I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Narcissa Is it actually in the actual rules that you can't have multiple threads, or is it more of an unwritten rule? And if so, can I PR threads if the poster already has an active thread in the same board? I didn't think there was any such rule, and I'm hesitant to really agree with it. I mean, define "active"? Is that no replies in a day, a week, a month? The second page, the fifth page? Whilst I agree that someone having two or more separate threads on the first page is annoying (and fragmented), if they are dealing with two separate issues, then is it really right to force those two issues together? Quote: And how do people suggest we deal with people just using threads to rant and ignore advice? I'd say just stop replying, but I get the feeling some people think it's a bit harsh to ignore someone who continually posts "It's too late" "I'm going to end it tonight", and end up replying, even though they know they will be ignored? Depending on the content, you could PR them for "suicide notes" or similar? Or, you could suggest that they may find the R/V forum (or journals even) more useful if they are not actively seeking support for their issue(s).