I think you'll probably find that there's different situations in which to give different answers. Some of the more 'manipulative' patients (for want of a better word!) may use it to try to gain an upper hand, in which case you'd definitely want to be wary of how much you divulge. Others might be looking for guidance, but may become very attached to you etc. Others probably won't mention them (perhaps the more socially-coping ones?) but may trust you more seeing them.
This is definitely something I would speak to mentors and tutors about, they will have experience how much is safe and appropriate to divulge. I don't think it's necessary to hide your scars, I think it's important not to hide ourselves from those around us and to be as transparent as possible without endangering yourself (just my thoughts). I think you'll probably be surprised at how few comments you get about them. People have their own stuff going on, and don't see what they don't want to see, and if they do society has done this 'helpful' thing of raising us not to talk about such things!
(My experience as a student midwife is that no one I've ever cared for has mentioned my scars, including my general nursing placement with children, elderly and all in between... but not mental health) xx
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