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Old 20-07-2012, 10:19 AM   #8
Mrs Sam
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Pregnancy is a scary and confusing time and thats when its planned and everything so god knows what your going through. Are you considering a termination because of the circumstances or because you don't want a child? I think thats important to consider as your circumstances can and will change in the future and at that point you might regret the termination. Whereas if its because you truly don't want it then its an option.

As for housing, you can always go on the housing list now and then in the future when you're nearer the top find somewhere with your partner. You don't have to use their option of temp accomodation but just wait at your partners parents until something suitable becomes available. I imagine you'd be quite high on the list quite quickly with a baby.

Have you looked at your benefits options? You will be able to claim more with a baby and also you will be able to get healthy start vouchers for fruit and veg. So any financial situation you are in right now will be eased slightly.

Talk to your partner. This should be a joint decision between the both of you as he is 50% responsible.

Take care

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