Originally Posted by
Bleeding Angel
Its because your post sounds really rude.
With all due respect i was giving you a few suggestions to try, while she may know she needs to bath and wont, its called giving a hand and supporting her and trying to get her to go on her own accord. Also i did suggest cooking her a healthy meal as well.
You know why don't you actually say to her "mum you havnet had a bath in awhile, i feel it would do you good and make you feel clean and nice, why dont i run one for you" or "hey mom why dont i cook you a nice healthy meal so it will make you feel better and will be much nicer than the junk food you are eating." That way you can tell her without being nasty about it or making it seem hurtful, but unless you tell her she may not know how you feel.
And maybe you need to call a doctor round or someone else you can talk to and get her help.
I'm sorry if my post sounded really rude. I know it's not a flattering quality - but it's how I feel. In therapy they tell you to get all in touch with your feelings and junk but see this is why I usually hold stuff in and act happy and **** all the time. So sorry about having feelings I guess.
And thanks for your suggestions I actually do appreciate them - I just don't like it when people criticize me... I actually don't really know how to cook and we don't have money to buy much food... So all we really eat is frozen meals at my house. So yeah. We have a bunch of fruits in my house because I insisted because I didn't like having junk food all the time - but my mom doesn't touch the healthy stuff.. Just the ice cream.
I did tell her that a shower might make her feel good - in a nice way. I'm actually a nice kid, you know. And she agreed. Didn't make her actually do it though. She has a therapist who's supposed to be helping too..