I understand you're frustrated but your mother is clearly unwell. If you're unable to show her some compassion then perhaps you need to look at you - and why this is provoking such a reaction.
I think perhaps you need to develop some healthy ways to deal with this situation and process what is going on. Maybe if you can speak to a counsellor about it?
Please, I urge you to look past the surface and consider if it is this hard for you to see, imagine how hard what she is going through is for her. I promise you it is more intense and difficult.
I know its not easy for you either but I do think your attitude may be creating more harm than good - for you and your mum.
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