I think he'd be more upset and hurt because you're hurting yourself, and he loves you, and probably it would hurt him to see you hurting.
If you feel you can tell him, maybe write it down on a letter for him? That way, he can read it over, absorb it, and if he does get mad, he can have some time to calm down and trying to absorb it all, and then be able to talk to you calmly about what's happening for you?
The people who love us say they will be angry, but I think that anger is hiding the hurt and the worry and the upset that you're hurting, because they love us so much they don't want us to be hurting at all, and especially not to hurt ourselves.
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