I agree with Anna and Amy, and also want to add that I think at some point, one needs to explore the reasons they self harm aka the 'positives' for them. It is only then that they can get an objective look from others going - 'okay, that may be a positive for you, but did you consider x y z consequences? What other ways can you achieve that perceived positive without harming yourself?'
Through looking at these real reasons why we self-harm, we can find a solution that is going to replace the use of self-injury and thus be a more likely candidate in helping us maintain recovery. It's more than just reading 'it felt good', it's about probing into why it felt good and exploring feelings and reasons in a mature way.
I think if your mindset is at a vulnerable state, whereby someone self-harming gives you 'permission' in your mind to self-harm, then I think it's best to stay off the boards discussing self-injury until you're a bit stronger in your convictions and able to challenge your thoughts, or look objectively at the situation.
And Eli, to clarify, I'm not bashing your thoughts as is the way of the internet. I'm just explaining my viewpoint, I understand yours may be different.
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