I know it's hard but it is probably a good thing that you were honest with her and got things out into the open as it doesn't sound like it was a very healthy relationship. Anything that makes you put your own needs behind someone else's is never healthy as it is important to put our own needs first for our own health and well-being. I do think it is important to talk to your team about your obsessions so they can help you work through them. Take care
Kat xxx
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