I think the only advice I can give is that when you find the person you want to do it with, even though it will still be scary at first, it will be ok, and they should respect you, and take it slow and not hurt you or pressure you or anything.
Afterwards you'll probably wonder what the big deal was about :P
I was always grossed out by sex. I thought it was disgusting and I would never do it, but I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years and he was patient and now I'm fine with sex and enjoy it, and I'm not really sure why I was ever afraid (though still a few issues like touching myself, or masturbating which I will not do).
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