I think blaming someone for your death/suicide is extremely guilt-tripping, manipulative, and wrong in general.
I do understand, believe me, that people can make your life a living hell, they can hurt you, upset you, bully you, abuse you, but blaming someone for x/y/z, I find that just as wrong as what they have done/said to you, to put the blame on someones shoulders for, to be frank, your own actions, is not right, and it's not fair at all, no matter what they've done/said to you.
It's not right to blame someone else for your suicide, just, it's not, IMO.
I do get having those dark thoughts though, of just leaving behind a note to someone/people saying "This is because of you, this is because you said x to me, because you did y to me, because you're a z, etc etc", or saying to people they're making you feel like killing yourself, it's actually really common to be angry/upset with people that make you feel awful/worse, I do get that, and I'm sure many of us on here do.
Anyway, that's just my take on the question. x
|