I actually had the same problem I believe. I have seen a hand full of different therapists over the years and they didn't help. The one that I see now I was wanting to drop her because she wasn't helping, just making me feel worse! But the thing is that that's when the therapy is really beginning sometimes. Vulnerability is present and it's extremely uncomfortable yet when you pass that little patch of awkward, unhappy, discomfort, then the therapy might really start kicking in. If you therapist is being judgmental, mean, rude, etc. that's different. Butif they are just approaching things in a way that isn't for you, talk to them! They really want to help.
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