That definitely sounds like something that would make anyone angry. You probably aren't going to be able to change your family's attitudes about things that have happened, but you can do things to take care of yourself. Do you have people you can talk to about it? Also can you talk to your brother about it since your family are ignoring it? Maybe the two of you could go out together to talk and just get away from the family problems, and it might help him clear his head and think about what he needs to do to keep himself safe. Hope you're doing ok though, I know it's really hard when people discount what you've been through and you have consequences for things that are not your fault.
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