Originally Posted by
Dash
Did you ask her why she feels that?
No. It was a difficult and emotional discussion throughout and I was just shocked. I just sat there and denied it and did not really know what to say.
Actually, I am omitting one detail. There was also a fairly recent instance of awkward sex where I was having trouble doing anything right and pulled away from her, catching her somehow as I did so (I'm guessing somewhere on the leg or something, judging by what I was doing). This was the only example of physical "violence" towards her that she cited.
I know nobody here really knows me and I could be lying. But for what it is worth, I am not. I am the kind of person who shies away from violence and only comparatively recently started inflicting it on myself, which I have made every effort to hide. I even went through a phase of trying aikido, which I sucked at as I could not bring myself to direct attacks at people with sufficient conviction (amongst other things).